Talk the Talk 话话世界

      大家可能听过我说cousins的事情，结婚的，做生意的， 做空姐，读medi的，都是父亲那边的。至于母亲那边我就很少提起，其中最大的cousin成了我现在最大的难题。他自从毕业后（form5 还有没考SPM)就一直呆在家里，学过煮东西却不耐热，所以放弃了，最喜欢是呆在家看anime(or what I called cartoon) and Masked Rider. 他的英文和马来文显然小学程度都没有，加上每次在我外婆家住和小孩子一起看电视，华语程度也和他们一样，不会看报纸，就连沟通都有问题。 早在他21岁，他妈妈就要把他送出来吉隆坡，但种种因数他爸爸拒绝了。现在他23岁出来帮他外公做工，我妈就觉得他可怜，叫他来找我解闷，so上个礼拜就一起玩了两天。

             In this two days, I totally can't communicate with him. Try to imagine that I had been living in here for 16 years, I speak like an ordinary KL people where i mixed english, malay, chinese or even canto in a conversation. I now have to control myself used as easiest chinese as possible to talk to him. He don't even see sports, watch drama and also politics and economics things. So what he knows were anime and games. And I don't watch anime (or cartoon) even when I'm 5. So games? I have to move my well-keeped PS2 out, and not forget to mention a 500 CDs games. I ave to answered one by one for each and every games for what's it's about and really I just play adventure, sports and RPG games, I did had some racing and fighting games probably to entertain my cousins when I brought PS2 back to hometown. But see he can't understand english, he can't play with those games. So only some racing games and fighting games, not more than 30... And he don't want fighting games...At last he played racin games. Imagine I had my trials which is most important exam going n while a guy playing games in my room.

               We didn't talk. I can't find a topic to talk while he can... He keep repeating how a masked rider transform himself.. He repeated it without noticed it. Perhaps some of the people might not understand this, he just really like Andrew Eng just andrew have better communication ability. Gosh!

He is a vegetarian, so mum have to cancelled the original plan for having a buffet steamboat dinner with me, we have to go vegetarian restaurant. It's ok for me. But my cousin was a very () guy, I don't know how do describe. He ate slow probably the slowest among 8 cousins in my mother side family. And he can't eat food that hot or spicy + the food must not to be dry... So it's a suffered dinner for me and daddy (both of us will have to slow down and cut down on food because we have to keep some of it for my cousin).

Then, he want to buy games... Oh,come on...I dont' agree but mum say neevr mind. (She neevr realise he have no PS2 in any place other than my room...which means he will come everyweek and play...) My headache started. I tested him by asking him to talk to the guy in games shop. He can't...At last he choosed his favourite naruto and ninja turtle...

So we paid the money... And at night I opened up the PS2 for him... He don't know how to play ninja turtle probably because it's in english and naruto... same case happening. The next day, I can't really study because of him...

And after he left... I talked to my parents... I told them about what I'm thinking... As a 23 years old guy, he don't have the basic of a 20+teenager... I don't demand him to know politics or economics, but at least some communication abilities... They should had gave him some training before send him to KL... It's a stress society in KL, eevryone talk fast in different languages... It's damn hard for you to survive if you not even mastered one of the language...

So now this week... Mummy ask me whether he can come... I said why everyweek he want to come... Mum said he very pity... But I got my trials going on... He come here also do ntg...I can't talk to him... Yeah,boy...I understand... He didn't talk to you also... So next week la....

Somehow my cousin called... With some pity style... He said he have nothing to eat today... I think this a child method for getting what the child want. I used to use it when I was 5 or 7... I gotta tell mum not to belive it and better called his relative to ask for prove...Mum said it's impossible for him to do that...

I said :" You can't use logic to assume what he going to do... He don't even have a basic character for a 23 years old person..."

Mum:" This is because he long time neevr talk to people...)

I said:" This might be one of the reasons but not for all... He used to be lazy... And now don't let him normal with all these... Want play games then play, want buy what then buy what... If he had been normal with these, he will started to compare and not to go back to his granddad's house. He think like a children now..."

Mum:" He never study also..."

I:" Yeah la, but don't let him be like that... Don't so good to him... We don't know what aunty (cousin's mum) say to her family maybe she asked them not to treat him too good to let him independent so if we too good to him he will be rely on us... Children will do that... You know, me and sis used to be scolded and punised since small so this why we are so listening to you all... You see those rich kids (i mentioned a few friends that my parents knew), they can do what ever they want because their parents gave them whatever they wanted."

Daddy:" You are right..."

Mummy:" What I think is don't be so cruel to him..."

I don't know but I think I might be too cruel but it's for eevryone own good... For me, for my cousin...

I don't mind being someone selfish... As long as I think it was right...